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Show #70: The One Thing Men Want from Women!

One Thing Men Want from Women

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Show #70: My guest on the show is Ms. Solomon from

Ms. Solomon became a Dating Coach after she realized that dating just came easy to her. She couldn’t understand why so many singles were complaining that dating was so hard.  She knew the truth about dating, which is it’s not that hard as long as you know the secrets….and she’s sharing some of her dating secrets with you.

What’s the one thing a man wants in a woman?

The one thing men want is…FUN!

Yes, really…it’s that simple! Men want a woman who is fun.

Now, you’re probably thinking “fun” is such a broad term.  So now, let’s get more specific about what we mean by ‘fun’.

There are actually 4 simple ways you can be more fun:

  • Fun & Flirty

Flirting comes naturally for some women, while for others it can feel uncomfortable. Even if you’re not a natural flirt, you can learn how to flirt by practicing on everyone, not just men you’re interested in.

If you’re just fun and flirt with men in general, you’ll come across as more friendly and men will just naturally want to be around you.

  • Fun & Adventurous

If you’re so set in your ways, it can be a turn off. Stop getting stuck staying in your same old routine.

It’s important to be spontaneous sometimes and get out and try new things….be adventurous. A man loves a woman who just goes with the flow and knows how to have a good time, no matter what she’s doing.

  • Fun & Positive

Positive energy and a positive attitude, creates positive results!

Stop being so negative…no one wants to be around negative Nancy.  Don’t complain about everything and anything to the man you’re dating. Just try to maintain a positive attitude no matter what happens.  If you’re negative all the time, he won’t want to be around you.

  •  Fun & Light Hearted

Keep it fun and light hearted. You don’t make it a competition with the man you’re dating. If you debate about controversial topics in the early stages of dating, you’ll create an antagonistic atmosphere and he won’t want to be around you.  A man doesn’t want to spend his free time with a woman who isn’t fun and doesn’t make him happy in his free time.

Now this doesn’t mean that you have to be fun 24/7, but what it does mean is that, if a man is going to spend a lot of time with you, he’s going to want to be around someone who is happy and fun to be around…because who doesn’t want to be around someone who makes them feel good inside?

If you want to know the secrets to attracting & keeping the right man, then check out our video series: The Secrets on Meet, Attract & Keep the Right Man!

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by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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