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Show #73: Sacred Bombshell Flirting!

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Show #73: My guest on the show is Abiola Abrams, Passionate Living Coach & Author, “Sacred Bombshell Handbook”.

What is Bombshell Flirting?

Sometimes women can make flirting more scary and daunting than it really has to be.

There is actually an art to flirting with a man, and once you master how to flirt…men will just be drawn to you!

Most women think flirting has to do with what you say or how you touch a man, but it’s actually so much more than that!

It’s all about tapping into your feminine energy. Every woman has a “Bombshell” within herself, whether she knows it or not.

You have to make a conscious decision to first love yourself, and the external energy will move with you.

Flirting is about enjoying your own magnificence in the presence of other people, not just men. You have to enjoy how fabulous, wonderful and luscious you truly are.

If a man sees that you’re in love with yourself, that’s what’s going to attract him to you.

It’s all about the energy you possess on the inside…and exude to the outside, so it’s not necessarily about how you touch or what you say to man, it’s more about your energy.

Inner Bombshell Flirting:

It’s important to know there’s a difference between the inner and outer flirt game.

Your inner flirt game is so much more important than your outer flirt game. And if you don’t have the inner flirt game, then the outer won’t work.

Here’s some tips on how to work on your inner flirt game:

  • Be Tuned into Your Inner Receptivity

You have to be able to receive a compliment and knowing that you are worthy. Don’t brush someone off or discount yourself when someone gives you a compliment.

You have to be able to receive it and accept it.

  • Flirt with everyone!

You may think it’s about flirting only with men, but it’s really about flirting with men, women, children…everyone!

It’s about giving off fun, loving, positive energy to everyone!

When someone possesses that energy, it draws people in and makes them want to be around you.

Like attracts, like!

People want to be around people that make them feel good about themselves.

  • Imagine Yourself as a Magnet

Don’t close off the attention, be comfortable with yourself. If you close off attention, then it’s going to repel men too. So, be open accept what you attract.

  • Expect a Male Miracle

Every day, you should walk out of your home and expect a “male miracle” and just see what happens!

When you change your energy to expecting and receiving, miracles can happen!

Just remember, flirting is something you need to do every day, it’s not something you turn on & off.

You have to change your inner dialog, and you need to do some positive self talk. And you need to be aware the energy that you’re putting out there, because that’s what’s going to attract the right man to you.

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by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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  • Pam Quittmeyer

    When I responded to people and stood up straighter, guys suddenly open doors, speak with me, get out of my way – before they didn’t even notice that I was there. This is so true.

    • I love to hear that those simple changes helped change the way men respond to you! 🙂 xoxo

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