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The Single in Stilettos Event on Saturday, October 15, 2011.

9:00 – 10:00 a.m. Check In
Coffee & Donuts
10:00  – 10:20 a.m. Welcome
Suzanne K. Oshima – Matchmaker
Dream Bachelor & BacheloretteAre you doing EVERYTHING you can do to meet your Dream Bachelor?
 Even if you think you’re doing everything you can, I guarantee you’re not doing enough to meet the man of your dreams.  It’s all about strategy and hard work when it comes to dating and meeting the one.
10:20 – 10:50 a.m. The Ideal Man Solution
Nando Rodriguez – Dating & Relationship ExpertIn a world starving for new Sex and the City episodes but unable to support their appetite or demand, women are left thinking that modeling their dating habits around four fictional characters will guarantee them martinis, motherhood and matrimony.

This presentation will help you redefine your relationship path and get an intimate understanding of how creating a “deal-breaker” list can be detrimental to your relationship and in seeking the ideal man. Take a deeper look at the qualities you’re seeking in a mate and a relationship in this interactive and dynamic presentation. The speaker will present a set of pragmatic tools to help participants create an ideal relationship guide and discuss various ways we self-sabotage our romantic efforts.

Questions Answered:

  • Why it’s important to create a “deal-breaker” list–then throw it away.
  • What an ideal relationship looks like.
  • Stop looking for certain qualities vs allowing them to blossom
  • Top 5 relationship myths
10:50 – 11:30 a.m. The Dating & Relationship Refs
Get advice on dating, love & relationships from our panel of Dating & Relationship Experts
Thomas Edwards Jr. – Professional Wingman
Sarah D. Bunting – Dating Advice Columnist
Debi Berndt – Sexy True Love Coach
Suzanne Oshima – Matchmaker & Dating CoachDating can be just as complicated as being in a relationship. How do you get from flirting to commitment, while staying sane throughout the process?

Thomas will talk about the timeline of dating, going from initial greeting to becoming exclusive with a partner. He’ll focus on what will impact your dating life the most, such as how to set yourself up to be dateable, body language, what you should be doing on your first date, your lifestyle and more.

Plus, you will get advice on your real life dating, love & relationships questions from our panel of Dating & Relationship Experts.

11:30 – 11:45 a.m. Break
11:45  – 12:15 p.m. Flirting 101
Tracey Steinberg – Life Coach & Dating ExpertDateologist Tracey Steinberg teaches women how to be a sexy and confident flirt. Her flirting tips include how to ensure your non-verbal body language sends the right messages, the importance of great eye contact, how to make certain your new man feels chemistry for YOU, what truly attracts men to women, and how to always keep him wanting more.
12:15 – 12:45 p.m. Finding Love in 90 Days
Dr. Diana Kirschner – Psychologist, Love Expert
& Best Selling Author
Dr. Kirschner will share the ultimate secrets she has used to help thousands create more love in their lives.  In Dr. Diana’s experiential mini-workshop you will learn to leave loneliness behind and tap into your “Diamond Self” so that you can find the One and deepen any love relationship. Learn:

  1. the  single most important thing you can do to find love
  2. how to empower yourself through the Dating Program of Three in order to come from abundance
  3. the ‘Diamond Self’ exercise that overcomes shyness
  4. how to find love in 90 days!
12:45 – 1:30 p.m. Lunch Break
1:30 – 2:00 p.m. Bombshell 101: How to Seduce Life
Abiola Abrams – The Lifestyle PassionistaAs a love columnist and lifestyle expert, the biggest questions that I receive from single women are ‘how to get a man‘ and then ‘how to keep a man.’ As for my own love resume, I have been in a relationship for 10 years, I’ve been married and I’ve been celibate. Although my husband cheated on me I found that all of my love woes in a relationship and as a single woman resulted from not feeling empowered.

As a suddenly single woman in my 30s I discovered the secret key to becoming my own bombshell and creating the life of my dreams. Instead of asking why all men are dogs, you need to figure out why all of the dogs are sniffing around your garbage. This talk will give you concrete tools on how to become irresistible to any man you want!

2:00 – 2:45 p.m. The Man Panel
Get advice on what men think and want from women from our panel of Male Experts
Thomas Edwards Jr. – Professional Wingman plus 3 Hot BachelorsThere’s no better way to understand how to find quality men by asking them first hand. Through specific strategies, Thomas will explain how and where you will meet the kind of men you desire. He will also educate you on first impressions, setting expectations with men , calling versus texting and more.

Thomas will point out the things women do that prevent them from meeting men and how to stop doing them, if you are. He will also share his most efficient tips on knowing when and where your types of men are available for you to meet them. Then, the panel discussion will begin, where real men will answer your questions about dating in NYC.

2:45 – 3:15 p.m. Man Mind Control – How to get into his head so he can’t get you out of his mind
Debi Berndt – Sexy True Love CoachWhether you have no luck getting dates, lots of dates with no chemistry or are falling for the guys who come on strong and then suddenly disappear, you can easily change your results.

You don’t need to engage in the dating games that attract the players who love them. Stop seeing yourself as someone who is broken that needs to be fixed to make you lovable. In this mini-workshop you will learn how you have always had the power to attract the man of your dreams.
You will:

  • stop dating by default and get in control of your mind and heart.
  • feel more naturally attractive and have your selection of quality men.
  • make simple changes to get him to call you back, keep asking you out and begging to see you.
  • discover the B.S. that is harming your love life and how to change it.
  • experience Debi’s signature Creative Mind Repatterning™ exercise to shift your deep mind for lasting love.  (Some people have met their husband in as little as an hour after doing this exercise!)
3:15  – 3:30 p.m. Break
3:30 – 4:00 p.m. Spiritual Well Being, Health & Image Panel
Jasbina Ahluwalia – Intersections Match Founder & President
Sarah Showfety – Life & Relationship Coach
Quinn Asteak – Holistic Health CoachJasbina Ahluwalia: Working towards the ideal of the best version of your authentic self will enhance your chances of living a fulfilling and meaningful life.. as well as attracting the right partner for you.  How incredibly empowering it is when relationship-minded women realize that embracing the best version of their authentic self is magnetic to guys with potential.  Playing to your strengths and values, whether in choice of career, how you spend your time, clothes, makeup, hairstyles you select, leads to magnetizing confidence which permeates and enhances the interrelated aspects of your being.  Confidence also happens to be one of the most-highly sought after qualities by relationship-minded men.   Truly feeling a sense of gratitude for all that is positive in your life is another quality which not only enhances your sense of well-being as a single, but also magnetizes relationship-minded men.  It’s hard to imagine the best version of your authentic self in the absence of health and wellness, generally speaking.

Quinn Asteak: In order to find the best man for you, you need to feel your best.  Holistic Health Coach, Quinn Asteak believes that the way you do one thing is the way you do everything.  The way you eat, exercise and do your job is probably the same way you date.  And just like no one man is perfect for every woman, no diet is either.  She works with clients to help them find the diet, lifestyle, self care and relationship that works best for their unique self.  On the panel she will be giving general tips  about proper nutrition, body image and how to improve your fundamental relationship with food—the longest and most complicated relationship most women have.

Sarah Showfety: The Power of Your Well-Being.  Are you present to the power of your well-being, and how it impacts every area of your life?  What are you currently doing (and not doing) to maintain yours; physically, mentally and spiritually? How can you improve it? In this panel, life coach Sarah Showfety will discuss well-being as the fundamental source of all results in our lives. You’ll gain an awareness of  why it’s so important, how you may unknowingly sabotage your wellness and learn simple steps you can take to improve it, in service of reaching your life and relationship goals.

4:00 – 4:30 p.m. Cracking the Code: Offline Relationships from Online Dating
Krissy Dolor – Certified eFlirter & Jill of All TradesThere are over 40 Million online daters in the US, so if you’re not meeting singles virtually, you’re missing out!  Because of the sheer number of singles and dating sites these days, navigating the online dating waters is not always as easy as it sounds.

Krissy will teach you how to master online dating and stay in control of your dating life: your profile, searches, communication with matches, etc.  Whether you’ve never cyber dated before or are a seasoned vet, Krissy’s tested insights will help you hone your online flirting presence and get results.

Krissy will show you how to identify and maximize your digital strengths and get you more targeted traffic by optimizing your online presence and taking advantage of multi-platform dating.  Then, she’ll explain how to get offline and stay there!

4:30 – 5:00 p.m. How to Create the Perfect 1st Date
Nando Rodriguez – Dating & Relationship ExpertIn the age of finding our love companions online, on social networking sites and in real life social encounters, we lack the skills to ensure the perfect first date. This presentation will help you understand the impact of the first date and how to take control and understand the inner workings of a date in a practical, fun and dynamic approach. The speaker will present a set of pragmatic tools to create an intent for the first date and discuss various ways the activated intent will payoff.  Participants will learn to ease the tension, build confidence, and ensure a positive experience and possibly…a second date.
Questions Answered

  • Why creating an intent is important for the 1st date.
  • What are the golden rules of creating an intent?
  • Where to set your expectations.
  • 3 topics to avoid on a first date.
5:00 p.m. Happy Hour Cocktails Begins
FREE Skinnygirl Cocktails, Godiva Chocolate & Sugar Flower Mini Cupcakes!
5:15 – 5:45 p.m. The Sexperts
Get advice on sex from our panel of Sex Experts
Yolanda Shoshana –Lifestyle & Sex Expert
Dr. Megan Fleming – Clinical Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist
Rainbow Geffner – Certified Slow Sex Coach
The Triple S: Being Sexy, Single & Safe!

You may be single, but you can still unleash your inner sex kitten. MEOW! Find out more information about instruments of pleasure, what you can do while you are in between partners, and how to love yourself first by practicing safe sex. Come with your questions and comments, because our mission is to leave no orgasm behind!

5:45 – 6:00 p.m. Closing Remarks
Raffle Prizes
Suzanne K. Oshima – Matchmaker
Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette
6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Happy Hour Cocktails Continues
FREE Skinnygirl Cocktails, Godiva Chocolate &
Sugar Flower Mini Cupcakes…and Mini Massages!
Mix and mingle with all our panel of experts and the
other fabulous women attendees.





Experts seen on:
Bravo TVOprahToday ShowGMAGlamourInside Edition