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The Single in Stilettos Event on Saturday, October 6, 2012.

12:00 noon – 12:15 p.m. Welcome
Suzanne K. Oshima – Founder of Single in Stilettos &
Matchmaker & Dating Coach at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette
12:15 – 1:15 p.m. The Man Panel
Get advice on what men think and want from women from our panel of Male Experts
Thomas Edwards, Jr. – Professional Wingman
Kevin Witt – Model & Actor
There’s no better way to understand how to find quality men by asking them first hand. Through specific strategies, Thomas will explain how and where you will meet the kind of men you desire. He will also educate you on first impressions, setting expectations with men, calling versus texting and more.Thomas will point out the things women do that prevent them from meeting men and how to stop doing them, if you are. He will also share his most efficient tips on knowing when and where your types of men are available for you to meet them. Then, the panel discussion will begin, where real men will answer your questions about dating in NYC.
1:15 – 1:45 p.m. What Men Really Want
Bill Collins– Movie Director & Producer “What Men Really Want”Bill will tell you the secrets about what he discovered about men in his independent documentary film, “What Men Really Want”. The film goes in depth into the minds of men to examine what men want, what is most important to men and what it means to be a man in all aspects of a man’s life.It’s an exploration across different states, from people all over the world, all ages and socioeconomic backgrounds. Through this discovery process, we are gaining perspective into what men want and need to achieve happiness and fulfillment, what family means to a man, what men look for in a partner, how men express their feelings, what men are most afraid of, the impact society plays on a man’s role, the differences between the opinions of men and women and much more.
1:45 – 2:00 p.m. Break
2:00 – 2:20 p.m. Digital Romance: Navigating Your Love Life in the Age of Social Media
Lori Bizzoco– Editor-in-Chief, Cupid’s PulseFrom texting and tweeting to Facebook and iPhone Apps, how is social media affecting your love life? Recent study results show that Facebook was implicated in a third of all divorce filings last year; it makes us wonder how we will ever understand dating in the world of modern technology.During her presentation, Lori will explore some of the most common relationship questions, review the basic rules of etiquette and utilize celebrity examples to help you navigate your love life in the digital world. Learn to master social media communication so you too can navigate this new terrain.
2:20 – 2:40 p.m. Scent of Seduction
Yolanda Shoshana– Lifestyle & Sex ExpertDo you know how important your perfume is in the art of seduction? Since the days of the first seductress, Cleopatra, women have used the sense of smell to seduce men to be their lovers.There are certain scents/perfumes that give off aphrodisiac elements that can help you attract a partner. You will learn more about the power of creating a sensual olfactory experience so that you can pick an original signature scent to add to your seduction tool box.
2:40 – 2:55 p.m. Break
2:55 – 3:25 p.m. 5 Steps to Increasing Your Attraction to Land the Man You Want
Marni Battista– Dating Coach – Dating with DignityWhy do New York women repeatedly keep dating men that are wrong for them? If they keep seeing men that aren’t ready for a healthy, intimate relationship, there’s obviously something wrong… right?Now New York singles can learn how to differentiate between the unavailable men (Mr. Elusive, The Hunter, Mr. Quality Casual, and The Cry Baby) to quickly identify Mr. Wrong and move on to Mr. Boyfriend Material in this amusing yet shocking realistic workshop that will tell you the secret system to becoming perpetually irresistible to the men you want, rather than the men you always get.
3:25 – 3:35 p.m. Beyond Words – The Non-Verbal Cues to Flirting & Finding Love
Erika Nitz & Jared SaisBrandU360 CEO Erika Nitz & non-verbal communication expert Jared Sais have partnered to write a book entitled The Non-Verbal Game of Sex, scheduled for release January 2013, which details the language of the body that happens in between the lines of romantic conversation. They will cover the basics on non-verbal signals women receive, send and interpret to make sure they’re on the right track to find true love.
3:35 – 3:55 p.m. Turning Mojo Malfunctions into Mojo Musts
Dana B. Myers, Author & Founder of Booty ParlorIn this interactive mini-workshop, you’ll tackle the Mojo Malfunctions that zap you of your sexy self-confidence and decrease your chances of finding The One. Sexy Lifestyle Expert, Author and Booty Parlor Founder, Dana B. Myers, will lead you through 4 fast & fun exercises where you’ll learn to:

  • Stop comparing yourself to other women
  • Find “sexy stimulation” in your every day life
  • Let go of sex guilt
  • Reverse negative body banter

Be prepared to let go of behaviors that no longer serve you, openly share with the women around you… and amp up your ability to feel fearless, foxy and free to love & be loved.

3:55 – 4:25 p.m. The Truth About Men
Dr. Ian Smith, Author “The Truth About Men”Dr. Ian Smith will help woman better understand why men do what they do and think what they think. Men are relatively simple creatures and there are universalities when it comes to men that if women knew and understood would relieve a lot of the frustration and confusion in relationships.

There are 10 principles to be covered when it comes to better understanding men. We will go through these ten principles and review some of the surveys and studies that shine a light on men and relationships and some of the surprising results. This is meant to be an engaging, interactive experience and not just a lecture.

4:25 – 4:45 p.m. Break
4:45 – 5:45 p.m. The Sexperts
Yolanda Shoshana – Lifestyle & Sex Expert
Claire Cavanah – Co-Founder of Babeland
PJ Gach – Senior Editor BettyConfidential.comThe Single Seductress

  • Seduce the pants off of anyone that you crave
  • Have a man begging to be in your boudoir
  • Seduce yourself into the best sex of your life
  • Things that you can do everyday to be the master of seduction
5:45 – 6:00 p.m. Closing Remarks & Raffle Prizes
Suzanne K. Oshima – Founder of Single in Stilettos &
Matchmaker & Dating Coach at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette
6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Happy Hour
FREE Cocktails sponsored by Balls Vodka & Goody Bags sponsored by Babeland!
Mix & mingle with all our panel of experts and the fabulous single women





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