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Show #55: 5 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves with Men!

Dating Mistakes Women Make



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Show #55: My guest on the show is Robert Manni, Author of “The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love” from

The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love is a fiction novel about dating, love, sex, money and power. If you loved Sex and the City, then you will love this book, as it’s the male version of Sex and the City meets the modern day, Mad Men.

Robert has his own BlogTalk radio show, Guy’s Guy Radio and is a regular dating contributor for CupidsPulse, GalTime and StraightUpLove.

5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make:


  • Always being ‘plugged in’

If you’re always on your smart phone, iPad or iPod, a man won’t approach you because he’s going to think he’s interrupting you from what you’re doing. If you want to meet more men, then you need to ‘unplug’ yourself from your electronics and start to become more aware of your surroundings and the single men that are all around you, every day!

  • Not fishing where the fish are

If you keep going out to the same places all the time, and you’re not meeting men…then you need to go where there are lots of single men. You have to start thinking in terms of what men like and what men like to do. Now, start going to those places and you’re bound to meet more men!

  • Traveling in packs

One of the biggest mistakes women  make is going out with groups of women.  Men are terrified to approach a woman, let alone a woman with all her girlfriends.  He risks getting turned down by you in front of all your girlfriends….which can be a huge blow to the male ego!

  • Sticking too closely to your list

When you come up with your list of what you want in a man, it shouldn’t be as longer than your list for the grocery store. Too many women have a list of ‘must haves’ that are ridiculous, and that could be what’s actually keeping you single.  You’re never going to get 100% of what you’re looking for, so you need get realistic and determine what’s really important.

  • Tossing him back too soon

Stop expecting fireworks and amazing chemistry on a first date…it rarely happens!  If he’s a good man and you had a good time, then it’s worth going out on a second date to see if there’s anything there.   In fact, you should go out with a man at least 3 times, before tossing him back.

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by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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