By: Dr. Diana Kirschner
The right kind of texting can change the whole emotional climate of your relationship. Gwen, a client in our coaching program used simple text messages to get closer to her boyfriend, Karl, a busy attorney.
After being together just a few short months, Gwen was actually pushing him away because she was anxiously demanding to meet his kids and family, know where things were heading, and so on.
This was just causing Karl to back off! We asked Gwen to stop her anxious demands and had her set up an amazing and close texting relationship with him. This created ATTRACTION rather than the repulsion she was generating before. Over time it brought them much closer and they got happily engaged (Karl proposed!).
Here is an excerpt with 10 great text ideas from my new e-book, 30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide (The Love Mentor’s Guide) to help you use the magic of texting to create the love you want. Send a few messages like the ones below and watch what happens!
• UR awesome
• Luv your kiss
• Can’t wait 2 feel your touch
• Still thinking about your lips
• Love your abs….
• Still thinking about that steamy shower
• Love to kiss you
• Can’t wait to get your hands on me (or my hands on you!)
• UR the man
• Thanks for making my day
You will be surprised by the response you get when you start sending texts messages like these. You’re going to get a wonderful result. Maybe not at the first text, or the second, but keep on going and you will see what happens—your partner is going to be a lot more responsive and interested in you.
About the Author:
Dr. Diana Kirschner was a frequent guest on The Today Show and starred in a PBS TV Special on love. She is the best-selling author of the dating book, Love in 90 Days and—just out now on Kindle — 30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide (The Love Mentor’s Guide). Dr. Diana has helped thousands all over the world find great solutions for their love problems. Her free Dating Tips & Relationship Advice newsletter is available at www.lovein90days.com.