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Show #54: 4 Signs He Might Be a Player!

Signs He's a Player

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Show #54: My guest on the show is Sandra Fidelis, Dating Coach at

For years, Sandra recognized the role she played in picking the wrong relationships. She always picked men based on chemistry. When she realized this was a negative pattern for her, she finally decided to stop playing the blame game and decided to learn about the dynamic between the sexes.

Through her training with the top industry experts and years of personal study, she then became a Dating Coach. She now shares what she has learned to help women shift their views of themselves, and yield life altering results!

4 Signs He Might Be a Player:

How many times have you dated a man and you had a feeling that he might be a player, but you weren’t really sure?

The truth of the matter is, sometimes you know the signs, but you ignore it because he’s a hot guy or that you just want it to work out.  But then, there are other times where he’s such a smooth talker, that he could even fool your mother into thinking he’s such a great guy.

So, if you’ve ever been in a situation, where you didn’t know if you were dating a player, Sandra’s telling you 4 key signs that you’re dating a player:

  • He never calls you, he only texts you

 When you have a phone conversation with a man, it’s more intimate and you get to know him better.  If he’s only texting you, he may see you as something casual, nothing more.

  • He tries to sleep with you too soon

Men are men, and they will always try to sleep with you, but if a man tries prematurely and keeps trying when you tell him you’re not ready…that’s a big sign he’s a player.

  • He gives you the cricket treatment

He’s all over you on your last date, and then you don’t hear from him for a few weeks. Nothing, no phone calls, no texts, no nothing!  Then all the sudden out of the blue, he texts you to see if you’d like to get together.

  • He’ll make inappropriate plans

He tells you too soon that he wants to take you on a fabulous trip to somewhere exotic.  You think it sounds amazing that he wants to do this for you, but it’s a huge red flag.

In the beginning stages of dating, if you start to see these signs, you could be dating a player.  The important thing to remember is, to follow your intuition. A woman’s intuition will tell you everything you need to know and when it’s time to walk away.

If you enjoyed this show and want to find out more signs you might be dating a player, watch my interview with Hunt Ethridge, “Signs You’re Dating a Player!”

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by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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