Show #78: My guest on the show is Robert Manni, Author of “The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love”.
Tips on How to Get a Second Date with a Man:
Getting a first date isn’t that hard…it’s much harder to get a second date! So, find out how you can secure a second date with the right man:
- Have Confidence
If he asked you out, he’s definitely interested in you, so have confidence that he’s attracted to you. So, just remember it’s your job on the first date to really show him how great you are and why he should want to go out on a second date with you.
- Don’t Drink Too Much
One of the biggest mistakes you can make on a first date is to drink too much. If you do, you’ll send out the wrong impression that you’re loose and can’t handle your liquor.
- Dress the Part
A man loves when a woman shows up to a first date dressed feminine. You want to dress appropriately where it fits the place you’re at, but also doesn’t show that you tried to hard.
- Talk about Your Aspirations & Dreams
Men love when you have your own aspirations and dreams and you can share them with him on a first date. A man wants to see that you have other interests in your life.
- Have a Conversation & Get to Know Him
The conversation on a first date should be balanced and not so one sided, so get to know him and ask him questions about himself.
One of a man’s biggest complaints on a first date is that a woman will talk too much about herself and not ask him anything.
- Don’t Talk Too Much About Yourself
Which brings me to the next tip…don’t talk too much about yourself. It’s a big turn off and it will not get you a second date with a man.
- Send a Thank You Text
Etiquette is not dead, and if you had a great time and he paid for the date, you should always send him a text letting him know you had a great time and thanking him for the date.
All in all, it’s many different factors that determine if he’ll ask you out for a second date, but if you can nail the above tips, then you’re more likely to be asked out again and again.
If you want to know the secrets to attracting & keeping the right man, then check out our video series: The Secrets on Meet, Attract & Keep the Right Man!