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When Should I Sleep With a Guy?

Should I sleep with a guy

You’re about to go on the 3rd date with Mr. Wonderful and the biggest question on your mind right now is….when should I sleep with a guy?

3rd Date Rule

Some people will tell you that there’s the unwritten “3rd Date Rule”.  And for those of you who don’t know what that is, it’s when you’re expected to sleep with a guy by the 3rd date.

Steve Harvey’s rule on how long to wait

Now, you could follow that rule, or you could follow Steve Harvey’s “90 Day Rule”.  Watch to see what Steve says about sleeping with a guy too soon!

Now, we’re all adults, so you can choose which rule you would like to follow.

The best dating advice I can give you is this…if you think you can win a guy over by sleeping with him, you’re dead wrong!  Men can have sex without any emotion involved. If you don’t connect with a man emotionally before you have sex with him, then it’s just sex to him and that is all.

If you’re not sure if a guy is interested in you or just sex, the only way to find out is to make him wait.  If he sticks around, then he’s definitely interested in YOU!


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by Suzanne Oshima

Suzanne K. Oshima is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach & Founder at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. She is also the Founder of Single in Stilettos, which gives women the best dating advice & tips to help them meet, attract & keep the one. Suzanne has been seen on Bravo TV, The Today Show, Good Afternoon America, Inside Edition, BBC Radio, Glamour Magazine, Men’s Health and much more!

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